I love cooking with my family, whether baking (like Daniel in this picture) or everyone coming in to help me cook this family favorite. I was trying to come up with recipes everyone would like and could eat (my husband has food allergies). I found this recipe on this site: www.justataste.com/easy-beef-bulgogi-bowls-recipe/#wprm-recipe-container-35062. We discovered in our adventure into new foods that we like a lot of Asian-style recipes. This style of cooking is less complicated to modify for food allergies. I have had to alter this recipe somewhat due to my husband's food allergies. Please visit the link above for the original recipe and directions. I will be giving you the recipe with my modifications. This version is allergy-friendly. I will also add the brands that I use. For the Beef Bulgogi: 1/2 cup of soy sauce (San-J GF Tamari) 1/2 cup packed light brown sugar 1 tablespoon of sesame oil 1/4 cup rice wine vinegar 2 tablespoons minced garlic (or til the ancestors tell you to stop) 2 tablespoons minced ginger 1/4 cup thinly sliced shallots (I typically do the whole shallot) 2 pounds of ribeye or top sirloin steaks, cut (I usually use whatever is on sale, and I don't always use beef) 2 tablespoons of vegetable oil (I usually use avocado oil) For assembling the bowls: 3 cups cooked rice (Jasmine rice or you could substitute cauliflower rice) 4 fried eggs (I typically do two eggs per person eating) 1 cup of homemade or store-bought (Sinto Gourmet Mild White Napa Cabbage) 1 English cucumber, cut into ribbons (I typically slice it) I typically forget to marinade ahead of time. But I would say to at least marinade for 2 hrs. It will enhance the flavor. Even though I do not always marinate, it always tastes good. You can prepare the remaining ingredients when it is time to cook dinner. Cook your rice according to the package directions. If you are substituting cauliflower rice, follow the directions on the bag. Slice up your cucumber. Fry your eggs. I typically use cooking spray instead of oil. This does cut back on some of the fat. I then give the call to say that dinner is ready. We all fix our bowls and pray together as a family. I love finding a recipe that my family gets so excited about. My youngest tried Kimchi for the first time a few weeks ago and decided he liked it. Daniel, my oldest, said he would not try it because it smells terrible. We eat it at least once a week. It is an effortless meal to cook. It is not always easy to cook for someone with so many food allergies, but I have a lot of fun finding new recipes that my whole family will enjoy. I hope you enjoy this recipe for beef bulgogi, a family favorite that never fails to impress. It is easy to make, full of flavor, and perfect for any occasion. You'll love the tender meat and savory sauce, whether you serve it with noodles, rice, cauliflower rice, or even on lettuce wraps. If you try this recipe, let me know how it turns out in the comments. Don't forget to share it with family, friends, or anyone who loves Korean food. Thank you for reading, and happy cooking!

Being a mother is not easy. Sometimes, it might feel like you are trudging through a battlefield. Then there are times when your child wants to cuddle on your lap, or your teenager randomly hugs you and tells you they love you. (Shocking, I know.) When they are adults, you get to enjoy the friendships that you develop. I have created a friendship with my mother; I love going to her house to crochet or hang out. My mom and I dressed up for a mother-daughter tea at church in this picture. I want to share some quotes that I found about mothers with you. I thought it portrayed motherhood. "Being a mother is not about what you gave up having a child, but what you gained from having one." by Sunny Gupta. "Being a mom isn't a job, hobby, or task. It is a calling. A calling to love well, a calling to instruct hearts, a calling to be present, and a calling to give them Jesus." Unknown Author "Being a mother is learning about the strength you didn't know you had and dealing with fear you didn't know existed." Unknown Author This is my favorite. "Being a mom means kids banging on the door like SWAT asking for a drink while you are in the shower and Dad is in the kitchen." Unknown Author Being a mother was something I had to learn to enjoy. In the beginning, it was enjoyable for me. Then, it was a lot of work and not so much fun. I always thought of myself as "just a stay-at-home mom." Someone at my high school reunion asked me what I had been doing since high school. I told them I was a stay-at-home mom. The response, "Oh," was very disheartening and discouraged me even more. I began thinking I should be doing something so much bigger than being a mother. Boy, was this wrong thinking. My church began a women's bible study group we call Patterned After Christ (PAC). We went through a book called True Woman 101: Divine Design by Mary A. Kassian and Nancy Leigh DeMoss. This study encompassed all aspects of a woman's life. It taught me what the Bible said about mothers and why it is a meaningful title. In the book, it explains how vital the role of the mother is in the home. How would this look in our homes? It is crucial that we are in the Word consistently. 2 Timothy 1:5 says, "I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois, and your mother Eunice, and now I am sure dwells in you as well." In these verses, Timothy's mother and grandmother's faith can be seen in his character. Our relationship with God refines us in many ways as mothers -- the fruit of the spirit is a significant part. Our children will notice these fruits in our lives, and this will cause us to be godly examples. We need to be careful of our words and conduct. Children will copy what they see you doing. A prime example is Rebekkah in Genesis 27:5-46. Even though Isaac was wrong in giving the blessing to Esau, Rebekkah was wrong in having Jacob lie to his father to get the blessing. This caused strife and hatred between the brothers, who may not have been there without the deceit. Siblings will inevitably fight, but we need not complicate it more. We have all heard the saying two wrongs do not make a right. It is essential to teach our children the word of God. It is vital to their salvation. Proverbs 1:8 Hear, my son, your father's instruction, and forsake not your mother's teaching. Proverbs 6:20 My son, keep your father's commandments and forsake not your mother's teaching. We see three repeated words in these two verses. They are instruct, command, and teach. What do these words mean? Instruct - a direction or order. Teach - show or explain to someone how to do something. Command - give an authoritative order. Here, we see the father's and mother's roles are vastly different. As mothers, we are to teach our children. Even though the roles are different, they are meant to complement each other. We are told to do this together, so it is not just one person. Paul could see Timothy's mother and grandmother's faith in him through how he acted and carried himself. This is how we know our faith, which is evident in our lives, can influence our children. Our children will learn and copy what we do and say on repeat. How can we show our faith in action? The example that comes to mind is the Proverbs 31 woman. To me, she has always been an unattainable woman who we could never emulate. We must remember that we cannot do this perfectly, especially on our own. When praying, we must ask God to give us the strength to complete what he has for us to do daily. We must also ensure that we bring God glory through what we do and not ourselves. Through her example, we see that we need to teach our daughters how to be godly women and show our sons what to look for in their future wives. Motherhood is a holy and high calling from God. It is not easy, but it is worth it. As mothers, we are responsible for teaching the next generations of God's image bearers. There are many resources from godly women on shared experiences or what they have learned about being a mother. Please look to those for encouragement, but remember, we have the best resource in God's word. We can look to the bible for guidance and inspiration from women of the Bible on how to be a godly mother. We can also ask God in prayer for strength and wisdom on this journey of motherhood. Let us trust him, obey him, and glorify him in motherhood.

We all have those friends we can call to grab a coffee or tea, go thrift shopping, or hang out. These are the friends that you make memorable moments with. Have you ever noticed how amazing it is to make friends as an adult? It's beautiful to realize that you don't have to share every interest to have a meaningful connection with someone. Some of the best friendships come from those who bring unique perspectives and experiences. Don't you agree? I can go over to a close friend's house, sit there with a book, my crochet, or my laptop, and she will go about cleaning or whatever she is working on. We also have times when we are talking about everything under the sun. The topics range from her toddler and baby to my teenage boys. I asked her for help if I did not understand algebra, which I am teaching this year. She is also one of my friends with whom I can converse personally, especially when seeking biblical counsel. We do have similar interests. We can read the same book, discuss it, and get similar and different thoughts. I love recommending books and authors to my friends. I also love receiving recommendations as well. Every Monday night, I have some friends over for dinner. After eating, we stay at the table to enjoy the company. Someone brings a game, or we can sit around and talk. It is usually about general stuff, but we always discuss something about the Bible. A friend brought over a Pride and Prejudice card game, so we all learned to play Whist. Let's get back to discussing the conversations we have over coffee. I enjoy going out for coffee and just catching up with people. You might see them at church on Sunday and Wednesday, but your conversation is different when it is a little more private. My pastor's wife has given great advice on many coffee dates. There is something that makes it easier to open up about things when sharing a cup of coffee. It is that time when you get those conversations going, and the topics can run the gamut. Whether it concerns books, shopping, kids, fears, marriage, ideas, challenges, or goals, we are here to encourage, give advice, and help each other no matter your life stage. The friendships we make as adults are on a deeper level than the friends we have in our children and teen years. They are the ones to whom their kids call you auntie, but you aren't related. The friendships we make as adults are unique and special. We don't have to share all the same interests or hobbies to form meaningful connections. It's the diverse perspectives and experiences that make these friendships so valuable. Whether over coffee, dinner, or just hanging out at home, these moments with friends create memories that last a lifetime. So, cherish your friendships, and don't be afraid to make new ones. You don't need to know who you will meet along the way. A favorite quote from JRR Tolkien is, "Not all who wander are lost." So, enjoy the people that God will put in your life. I would love to make new connections through this blog. Please reach out. I would also love any book recommendations.

I began my interest in cooking at ten in Chester, South Carolina. It started with my mother allowing me to help her with family meals. Learning to cook in the South meant frying and using lots of butter.  I learned many different recipes and techniques from other women in my family. I remember picking blackberries with my aunt Gracie. Then we returned to the house, washed them, and made a cobbler. I came from a large family of nine people. So, I learned how to cook large meals. Then, when I got married, I struggled to cook for two people. I eventually got the hang of it. I loved cooking for my husband; he ate everything that I cooked, even though I’m sure that I cooked a few meals that could have been tastier. At this point in my cooking journey, I started experimenting. I used many different spices and cooked new foods I had never tried. Then, children came along, and I had to start cooking large volumes again. I had two boys who loved to eat everything. (It’s like cooking for nine again!) I also loved baking, especially from scratch. The boys would help me in the kitchen. It was mainly to eat the cookie dough. It was after ten years of marriage that my husband developed celiac (wheat allergy). So, I had to learn all the wheat words and change how I baked for him. Today, after figuring out many substitutions, sausage gravy biscuits are a regular in our house. Figuring out how to use the different types of flour has been difficult. I was finding what worked best. He developed an allergy to dairy a few years later. So, we had to reread labels and learn all the terminology for dairy. Then came the corn allergy. That one was a bit more severe. Then came the peanut allergy. Again, this one was more severe than the wheat and the dairy. Lastly, he developed a sensitivity to nightshade vegetables (tomatoes, potatoes, peppers, etc.). This took a lot of his favorite foods out of the picture. I often get questions like, “What do you feed him, cardboard?” He eats fresh meat, most vegetables, and fruits. Because of his allergies, I constantly learn new ways to cook things he likes. He is not the only one that makes it hard. I also have health issues that have led me to change the way I think about food. I prioritize the nutritional value of my food over satisfying my cravings. I started this new journey in November. These are changes in my cooking that I will make permanent. Even my two teenage boys enjoy the new foods I am cooking. Please do not think we only eat healthy foods now and deprive ourselves of the food we enjoy. We still eat things we love. We might change the way we cook it or exercise portion control. It has been a lot of fun learning new things about food.  I hope this inspires you to try new ways to cook or try new foods. If you have any questions or comments, please get in touch with me.

I originally wrote a devotional for a mother-daughter tea that I gave at my church. I want to make it into a 3-part series to tell you what I learned about my God-given purpose in these three areas of my life. In a world where identity and labels have become so important, I think these three are essential in our lives as women. Notice the order they are in: woman, wife, and mother. We are defined as women first in Genesis. The other definitions came later. Not all may fit everyone, but I wager you will fit at least one. It is essential to know who you are and what your purpose is here. Roles were clearly defined in the Bible.  I know I may step on some toes with what I am going to say, but I feel it is essential that we learn the truth. John 8:31-32 says, “So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” You will be free from depending on the world to define you and tell you who and what you are. You will know without a doubt. I hope all reading this know Him as their Lord and Savior. If not, please do not hesitate to contact me. I would be happy to show you in God’s word how you can find this freedom from sin and the world.

What does it mean to be a biblical woman? This is a question many Christian women have asked themselves, especially in a culture that often promotes conflicting messages on gender roles and identity. Some may think it is defined by rules or expectations, such as being a wife, mother, homemaker, or a submissive partner. Others may reject the idea altogether, seeing it as oppressive, outdated, or irrelevant. But what if Biblical womanhood is more than just a list of do's and don'ts? What if it is a beautiful and diverse expression of God's design and purpose for women, rooted in his word and character? What if it is a calling to reflect his image, to serve his kingdom, and to glorify his name? Biblical womanhood is not a one-size-fits-all formula but a dynamic and diverse reality. It is not a burden to bear but a blessing. It is not a limitation to our growth but a fulfillment of our purpose. Let's dive in to see what the Bible says about Biblical womanhood. I Timothy 1:5 says, " The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart, a good conscience, and a sincere faith." Also, Proverbs 31:30 says, " Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." We need to have a good conscience and sincere faith. We can obtain these by loving the Lord. We will love the Lord by being in His Word and knowing Him more. We then need to put our faith into action. 1 John 3:18 says. "Women, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and truth." We also read in Titus 2 that we are to train the young to love their husband and children, to be self-controlled, working at home, kind, and submissive to their husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. To have this sincere faith and to put it into action, we need to be in the Word and pray. We need to develop that personal relationship with God. He needs to be a part of our everyday conversation. Doing these things consistently will strengthen our relationship with Him. There was a dear, sweet lady in my church named June Fullmer. She loved the Lord and was not afraid to tell someone about it. When preparing this topic for a devotional, I asked her daughters if there was some advice they had gotten from her that they could share. Her daughter Sandy told me that if she asked what she should do about something, her mother would say, "Well, what does God say about it? Have you read your Bible today? What did he say to you?". Her daughter Linda said she learned from her example to be faithful in reading and studying the Bible. Strengthening our relationship with God will help in our other relationships as well. This is not always easy to do because there is this thing called life that gets in the way. If you find it hard to have quiet time with Him, you may need to examine what is in the way. Then let that go from your life. By doing this, you will grow closer to him and become an example of Biblical womanhood.

My name is Katie. I am excited to welcome you to Faith, Home & Coffee. This blog is a platform for me to share my thoughts, experiences, and interests with all of you. Let me tell you a little about myself. First of all, I am a child of God. I accepted Him as my Lord and Savior when I was four. I am from a family of 7 kids. We moved from South Carolina to Colorado when I was in 10th grade. I have lived in the same town and attended the same church ever since. I met my husband at this same church in 2002. We began dating in April 2002. We got engaged on May 18, 2002. We were married on March 22, 2003. We started a journey together with the Lord leading us. We had our first son, Daniel, in 2007 and our youngest son, Joshua, in 2008. I will talk more about them another time. Faith, Home & Coffee reflects who I am and what I believe in. I am a person of faith and find great comfort and strength in my relationship with God. My faith is an integral part of my life and influences everything I do. Being a homemaker is another significant aspect of my life. I love creating a warm and welcoming home for my family and friends. I believe a house is not just a physical space but a place where memories are made and love and laughter abound. And last but not least, coffee is a staple in my daily routine. It is my go-to beverage that helps me start my day positively. Through this blog, I hope to inspire and encourage you to find joy and purpose in your faith journey, home life, and daily routine. I will share my personal experiences, tips, and insights on various topics related to faith, home, and lifestyle. So, please grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and join me on this journey of faith, home, and coffee.

Being a Biblical wife is not about adhering to rules or meeting fixed standards. It is about fulfilling your God-given role as a helper, partner, and co-heir with your husband in God's kingdom. It is about honoring God through your marriage and reflecting his love and grace on your spouse and family. In this blog post, I'll share some Biblical principles and practical tips for being a godly wife in today's world. Whether you are newly married, struggling in your marriage, or looking to strengthen your relationship with your husband. I hope to inspire and encourage you to seek God's best for your marriage. When considering biblical marriage, the word "submission" comes to mind. It is also the dreaded word that no one discusses or understands appropriately. First, we must ascertain the meaning of the word. What is submission? In Webster's dictionary, submission is defined in two ways. First, the condition of being humble or obedient. Second, the act of giving in to power or authority. The Bible says in Genesis that we will struggle with submission to our husbands. I reflect on the times over the 21 years (this March) in which I struggled with submission. At the time, I did not realize that I was wrong. These times were when I believed I knew better, was selfish, and demanded my way. It was all about me and not us as a team. Let's dive in and see what the Bible says about submission. Our submission begins with God. If we cannot submit to God, we will be unable to submit to our husbands. James 4:7-8, 10 says, " Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Clean your hands, sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you. By doing so, we are humbling ourselves in front of God. Matthew 5:5 says, "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth." We are open to learning and growing when we are submissive (humble, gentle, and meek). Proverbs 1:7 says, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction." Our fear (reverence) of the Lord is where our knowledge comes from. Then comes the tricky part. Today, society tells us that we should not submit to anyone. When society thinks of submission, it refers to a situation in which a person is subordinate to another or mistreated. However, when God created Eve, she was made from Adam's rib bone. This is taken from his side, not anywhere else on the body. This implies that we are going to be by his side. Genesis 2:18 says, " Then the Lord God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a helper fit for him." According to the Got Questions website, meet (KJV) or helper (ESV) in this context is an adjective that means "suitable." God made a "helper" for Adam who was suitable, fit, and proper for him. A suitable helper completes him in every way, bringing harmony rather than discord to the relationship. Ephesians 5:21-24 talks about wives' submission to their husbands. However, beginning with verse 21, we are instructed to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. This submission concerns the authority that God has established. This is another example of something that is not taught in today's society. It is evident in how we interact with one another. Beginning in verse 22, we are instructed to submit to our husbands as we would to the Lord. Did you know that being submissive to our husbands is about pleasing them and obeying God? It's a beautiful way to honor our faith and create a solid and fulfilling relationship with our spouse.  We can respect our husbands' authority more readily by following God's commands. We are commanded to submit to them as to the Lord. Even when we have husbands who don't necessarily deserve submission or whose judgment we don't always trust, we know that we are submitting to God and can trust Him with the outcome. Husbands are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the church. We remember all that Christ did for the church. He sacrificed himself on the cross. A husband's love is sacrificial. My husband exemplifies this choice. He returns home every day exhausted from a long day's work. He does this so I can stay home and homeschool our two boys. "Every day, he goes above and beyond to make my life easier. No wonder I am eager to take care of our home and submit to his love. We share a beautiful give-and-take, and I feel fortunate to have him in my life." Do I always succeed? Nope. Do I always strive to do better? Yes. We will not find it easy to submit in our marriage. Our sinful nature is selfishness, which opposes submission. But, in the end, it is not about who we want to be but about obeying God. If we can't wholly submit to God, we'll struggle to submit to our husbands in any way. This is where having a relationship with God can help. If we have a strong relationship with Him, it will be easier to submit to Him in the required areas. Please look up scripture to ensure you are following God in obedience. Pray and ask God for help in the places where you are struggling. I am happy to speak with you if you have any questions or concerns. Thank you for taking the time to read this.